Who are the nefarious dream agents, seemingly not at all connected to my own subconscious, speaking negatively to me (or incorrectly about me) and then seemingly able to end the dream, causing me to awaken back in my bed?

I have many examples of this kind of thing happening, but here are 3 of the most obvious:

Dream 1:

I was with a girl I didn’t recognize and she was trying to get me to make out with her. I suddenly became lucid.

I knew I should try to get information from her, just in case I was actually residing in some parallel universe or time period, so I asked her what year it was. I knew something in the dream wasn't right, so I continued to focus on asking her that question, in order to verify that THAT reality (and maybe my own, in waking state) are lies.

As soon as I kept asking her what year it was, over and over again, without her giving me an answer, a military/thug type man showed up and looked down at me and said "Now, why did you have to go and do that?". Then he did something physical to me and I immediately woke up in my bed.

Dream 2:

As I’ve mentioned, I often have dreams where the people I interact with seem in no way tied to my own subconscious or to my brain just working shit out from previous days. This dream is a perfect example of this happening.

In the dream, I was in my hotel room at the Four Seasons and hanging out with my father. I began to get lucid and he started acting weird and then he went into the bathroom and seemed to lay in the bathtub. I went in to the bathroom and suddenly he was some younger female.

She then went into the living area and seemed to be disgruntled. As I became even more lucid I demanded that this girl tell me what was happening to me and why I’m going through whatever I’m going through. I was specifically addressing what I’ve been going through the last 10+ years with feeling like I’m being kept in the dark and fucked with or tested.

She responded to me in a sarcastic, seemingly angry tone (as if she disliked me): “I’m not authorized to tell you”.

Immediately after that I felt one side of head getting numb and my ear seemingly filling with something that made my hearing difficult and I began to drift off and suddenly woke up in my own bed.

Dream 3:

I was watching a teacher in the front of some classroom do some kind of presentation. Suddenly, in response to something he just spoke of, he says: "Like Ayrin, like Ayrin here" and he was looking right at me.

It was clear he was attempting to say my actual name (Aaron) but he just wasn't sure how to pronounce it. He was saying my name in a way someone who didn’t know how to pronounce it may perceive was the correct way. But it was completely wrong.

Clearly my own subconscious would know how to pronounce my own name, so this man was some kind of external entity, just like the other people I mentioned above. Who are these people?